How to Make Decisions You Won’t Regret

Hey Simplifiers,

Here’s something we don’t talk about enough as adults: we’re out here making daily decisions, big and small, but how many of those choices actually reflect who we are?

We say yes when we mean no. We take the job, date the person, buy the thing, and then sit there wondering why it doesn’t feel right. The truth is, many of us live out other people’s values… not our own.

What Are Value-Based Decisions?

Value-based decisions are choices you make by asking:
“Does this align with what matters most to me?”

Your values might be freedom, family, peace, purpose, creativity, or stability. When you know your core values, decision-making becomes less about pressure and more about clarity.

How to Get Clear on Your Values:

If you're unsure what your values are, ask yourself:

• What makes you feel most proud of yourself?

• What moments in life have felt the most meaningful?

• What would you keep doing, even if no one noticed or clapped?

Write those answers down. That’s your compass.

Real-Life Examples of Value-Based Decisions:

• Turning down a higher-paying job because you value work-life balance.

• Moving closer to family because connection matters more than status.

• Starting a side hustle because creativity is a non-negotiable for you.

• Saying no to plans because rest is sacred.

Why This Matters:

When your decisions are grounded in your values:

• You stop second-guessing yourself

• You feel more confident, even if it’s hard

• You attract people and opportunities that are aligned with your path

You don’t owe anyone a version of your life that doesn’t feel good to live. The more you align your choices with your values, the more peace, purpose, and freedom you create.

It’s not always the easiest route, but the most honest one.
C🩶
Founder of The Simple Adult