Adulting: Learning the Hard Way

Hey Simplifiers,

Ever feel like you’re learning life’s lessons the hard way? From mystery buttons on car keys to ordering a coffee that’s nothing like what you expected, adulting is filled with unexpected moments that catch us off guard. But here’s the thing: every little misstep is a chance to gain valuable insights— no, it’s not just you. We’re all out here trying to figure it out, one awkward moment at a time.

The Big Lesson: Adulting is Trial and Error—and That’s Okay

You don’t have to have it all together. In fact, no one does. Adulthood is about making mistakes, figuring things out on the fly, and finding humor (or at least some lessons) in the chaos. Those tiny everyday hurdles remind us that we’re all just learning as we go.

Lesson 1: Embrace the Awkward Learning Curve

Whether it’s figuring out your coffee order or realizing the limitations of your car’s “cool” extra features, adulting teaches us that it’s okay to not have it all down. In fact, those moments of confusion are what make the journey interesting.

Action Step: Next time you’re faced with something unfamiliar—whether it’s a new task at work or a weirdly complicated coffee order—take it as an opportunity to learn. Don’t shy away from asking questions or trying something new. The learning curve is where growth happens.

Lesson 2: Simple Habits Can Prevent Big Headaches

Ever lock yourself out of your own car or forget to pay a bill? Yeah, we’ve all been there. Small habits, like keeping track of your keys or setting a reminder for due dates, can make all the difference in reducing those adulting “fails.”

Action Step: Start with one small change—like designating a consistent spot for your keys or creating a quick checklist for your morning routine. These tiny tweaks can prevent a lot of unnecessary stress.

Lesson 3: Don’t Let Fear of Judgment Hold You Back

Often, we avoid trying new things because we’re afraid of looking foolish. But here’s the truth: no one is paying as much attention to your “mistakes” as you think they are. Whether it’s experimenting with a new skill or even something as simple as not knowing the right coffee order, don’t let fear of judgment keep you from exploring new things.

Action Step: Give yourself permission to be a beginner. It’s okay to not have all the answers. Your willingness to try—despite the fear of messing up—is what sets you apart.

Your Challenge This Week:

Adulting isn’t about perfection—it’s about persistence. Pick one small area where you feel a little lost and take action, no matter how awkward or uncertain it feels. From mastering your morning coffee run to tackling that growing to-do list, every little step counts.

Before You Go: What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently about adulting? Hit reply and share—I’d love to hear your stories and cheer you on as you navigate these ups and downs.

Until next time, keep embracing the chaos, keep adapting, and let’s keep simplifying. 🩶